No matter husband and wife or lover, no matter how good the relationship is, don't ask for these two things.

I saw a small video on a certain sound with the title: the taste of the candy you want is different from that of the candy you offer.

indeed, in a relationship, the meaning behind the same thing, what you want and what you give voluntarily is completely different.

if a person really loves you, he or she will offer the best to you without you asking for it. On the contrary, all you want is charity and humility.

so, in a relationship, no matter the couple or the lover, no matter how good the relationship is, don't ask for it, especially these two things.

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first thing: love

everyone expresses love in different ways, but the same thing is that when you really love someone, a lot of things can't help.

if a person really loves you, he can't help but care about you and care about you. There is no need for you to reach for it, because the other person knows that love is initiative and giving.

on the contrary, when a love, you need to speak, it takes effort to get, such love can only be said to be hypocritical love.

all say: "the melon that twists hard is not sweet."

Love is the same. What you reach out to you is not true, but if you give it voluntarily, you will warm your heart.

therefore, we must understand that in a relationship, what we take the initiative to give is love, and what we reach out for is charity.

when two people are together, if you have to say everything and reach out to ask for it, this kind of love has changed.

nothing in the world can be happy through pity and charity, especially love.

True love comes from the heart, not on the basis of reaching for it.

if love depends on reaching out and becomes a handout, such love has lost its true heart and true feelings, as well as the meaning of love.

therefore, in a relationship, no matter husband and wife or lover, do not reach for love. People who want to give it to you will naturally take the initiative to give it to you. You don't have to ask for it deliberately. You don't want to give it to you. What you reach out to you is also humble and bruised.

remember that only the love we give voluntarily is the love we want.

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second thing: gift

yesterday, a friend in the group privately asked me a question: it's my birthday in a few days. Should I ask for a birthday present? I replied to her: gifts, take the initiative to send is the heart, to come is something.

I think it's only natural for a friend to ask about this, but a gift must be given voluntarily, not asked for. If a gift is coming, it can only be said that you are coming with one thing, not love and care.

indeed, as lovers or husband and wife, they all want to receive gifts carefully prepared for themselves by their partners on holidays, especially birthdays, because they can feel each other's true feelings and love.

as people who love you and love you, they will also take the initiative to prepare gifts for you, choose gifts for you carefully, and give you gifts on their own initiative, because each gift represents the other person's love for you.

so, most of the time, the gift has nothing to do with material things, it is an expression of the other person's heart, and it also shows that the other person cares about and values you and loves you.

however, this requires the other party to give it voluntarily. If the other party does not volunteer to give it to you, forget it, because what is coming is more pitiful than nothing.

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A gift is not just an object, it carries a person's sincerity and sincerity to the one they love.

it is an instinct for people who really love you to pay for you and give you gifts. You don't need to remind me that the other person will take the initiative to prepare romance and surprises for you.

and a person who will not take the initiative to give you a gift is not ignorant or unromantic. It can only be said that the other person does not love you so much and cares about you.

in a relationship, if the other person offers to give you a gift, keep it and don't give it, and you don't have to ask for it. If you don't give up a gift, you won't feel happy when you get it.

A really good relationship is uncontrollable love and willing to give.

therefore, it doesn't matter if you don't want a gift that you don't want, but you owe others a "favor" instead.

in a relationship, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, but you are afraid of loving someone by mistake.

in a relationship, it doesn't matter if you love again and again, but don't love to be humble and compassionate.