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Taoist Liu Sanquan once said:
"of all fengshui, the first fengshui is human." Man's first fengshui is heart, man's second fengshui is mouth, and man's third fengshui is behavior.
therefore, the best feng shui in the world is not in the ancestral grave, nor in the home, but in the character. "
A person's luck depends to a large extent on himself.
kind words can bring you warmth; good habits can bring you success; a good temper can bring you happiness; a good character can bring you luck.
Life is not easy, please do not destroy, you are everywhere fengshui.
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your mouth is your fengshui
there is a saying in "Honor and disgrace of Xunzi": "being kind to others is warmer than cloth, hurting people with words, and deeper than spear halberd."
saying kind words to others is more warm than putting on cloth and silk clothes, and hurting others with bad words is more painful than being stabbed by spears and halberds.
in a cartoon on the official account "rare Human", there are two stories:
A girl who failed in the exam began to cry sadly.
A classmate came to comfort her: "Don't be sad, you did well in the exam, much better than me."
who knows the girl is not only ungrateful, but also retorts, "what's the use of being better than you?"
the students turned green with anger.
say mean things to people who care about you, no matter how close the relationship is, you will stay away.
there is another story about a housewife who is excitedly cooking dinner in the kitchen.
when her husband came back, the housewife greeted him with joy and told him, "I made your favorite food, Sweet and Sour Spare Ribs."
unexpectedly, the husband just gave a cold "um". The housewife asked again with concern, "are you tired?" The husband said, "I don't want to talk now."
the enthusiasm of a housewife is like a pot of cold water poured down and extinguished. Her heart is also very cold.
in a marriage, if you always send your lover with perfunctory and indifferent language, then the marriage is not destined to be happy.
there is a saying in Zengguang Xianwen: "good words are warm in three winters, but evil words hurt people in June."
A person needs to make good use of words in his life. Cold words, no matter how warm the heart will cool; warm words, can melt indifference and estrangement, happiness will come uninvited.
your mouth is your feng shui.
your habit is your class
the famous British writer Oscar Wilde once said: "at first we create habits, then habits make us."
it is difficult to form good habits, but once formed, habits will lead us to success.
Haruki Murakami, a famous writer, decided to write for a living at the age of 33.
because he tried to write later than many people, he kept on writing 4000 words a day.
he gets up on time at 4 o'clock every morning and begins to work at his desk for four or five hours.
he ordered himself to write 10 pages a day, and sometimes he would muster up his energy to finish the task, even if he felt he couldn't lift himself up.
Haruki Murakami felt a little overwhelmed by sitting and writing for a long time. For the sake of his health, he decided to start exercising.
since then, he will run 10 kilometers every day, which he has been doing for decades up to now.
he once said: "many of the ways I write novels are learned naturally, personally, and practically when I run along the road every day."
A few years later, he not only succeeded in becoming a novelist, but also lost excess weight and quit smoking.
from a small shop assistant heavily in debt to a famous prolific writer, Haruki Murakami's life has achieved a leap of class precisely because he has developed good writing and sports habits.
successful people all know the importance of good habits. Those who make good use of habits turn over their whole lives.
Jobs once said:
in the first 30 years of your life, you formed a habit.
in the last 30 years of your life, your habits determine you.
A good habit is a ladder that leads you to the top and reap the joy of success.
A bad habit is a downward slide that takes you to the bottom and ruins your life.
only by developing good habits and continuous improvement can you reach a higher level in your life.
your mood is your blessing
the ancients said, "Don't promise when you're happy, don't say anything when you mourn, don't fight when you're angry, don't decide when you're in chaos, and end when you're tired."
only people who can manage emotions can control their own lives.
such a thing once happened in Shanghai.
A woman took a bus and forgot to get off because she didn't notice that the bus had arrived at the station. The driver thought no one was getting out of the car, so he closed the door.
at this time, the woman reacted and quickly told the driver to stop. She wanted to get off. But the car has started and the driver hasn't stopped.
the woman quarreled with the driver. During the dispute, the driver stopped and asked her to get off three times, but she continued to quarrel with the driver and refused to get out of the car.
in order not to waste the time of the passengers on the bus, the driver closed the door and went on the road.
as soon as the woman saw that she was more urgent, she quarreled with the driver and started to stop the driver at the same time.
at the same time, she grasped the steering wheel with her right hand and argued with the driverGrab the steering wheel, causing the bus to sway left and right on the road.
inadvertently, the bus collided with an engineering vehicle of an electric power company, resulting in varying degrees of damage to the two cars. Fortunately, no one was injured in the car.
in the end, the female passenger was sentenced for harassing the bus driver and disqualified from settling in Shanghai.
A trivial matter that could have been solved calmly, because of emotional impulse, resulted in the serious consequences of sentencing, and the loss outweighed the gain.
the ancient Greek philosopher Pythagoras said, "anger begins with folly and ends with regret."
being out of control is the trigger for disaster; only by holding back your emotions can you keep your happiness.
controlling emotions is never a sign of weakness, but an ability that only people with a strong heart can have.
your character is your luck
some time ago, I saw a piece of news:
during the epidemic, a certain district in Beijing occurred for several days in a row, and express parcels were stolen. The residents who lost the parcels had no choice but to call the police.
due to the epidemic situation, the community has carried out closed management, and couriers can only put the parcels in the special storage location set up by the community.
originally, this kind of management is to better protect the health and safety of residents in the community, but it inadvertently provides opportunities for petty thieves.
the police quickly found the stolen man and found the stolen package in the man's home.
under interrogation by the police, the man finally confessed that he had stolen more than once, but stole 17 parcels and obtained a total of 21 items.
what is even more surprising is that the thief was a 38-year-old returnee doctor.
moreover, the living conditions of this doctor are not poor. He works as an executive in a foreign company with an annual salary of 400000 yuan.
but he still thought of stealing. He stole more. He thought he would not be discovered, so he became addicted to it.
in the end, he was criminally detained by the police, and his bright future was ruined in his own hands.
in fact, the fate of your life is never determined by your appearance, education, or family background, but by the lowest point of your character.
there is a saying that goes like this: "it doesn't matter whether you are born noble or humble, but you must have the way to be a man."
character is the foundation of life, the capital based on society, and the basic skill of all conduct.
if you have a good character, you will have a yardstick in your heart to standardize your own morality, to measure your words and deeds, to know well, to do things magnanimously, and to be a correct person.
when you are always on the right path and have a clear conscience, good luck will naturally come to you.
Stalin once said, "No matter how much a crow decorates itself with peacock feathers, a crow is a crow."
geomantic omen is self-made.
words are the voice of the heart, and your mouth determines your feng shui;
good habits are ladders that make your life climb;
emotionally stable, not swayed by emotions, blessings come as promised;
have both ability and political integrity, put virtue first, and often accompany you far away.
repair a kind mouth, develop good habits, learn to control emotions, be virtuous, is a person's best feng shui.