It is better to be angry than to be proud, and it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself.

there is a riddle in Greek mythology that asks: "what walks on four legs in the morning, on two legs at noon, and on three legs at night?"

answer: "people."

if you think about it, it is true.

A person's life is the process of crawling, walking, and then supporting himself. The walking state is like this, and so is the course of life.

some people say that when people reach a certain age, they have to be the eaves above their heads, suffering from the wind and rain.

all my life, how to come and how to go depends on how I go.

01

it is better to be angry

Wang Jian joined Ali in 2008 to develop Aliyun. He received as much as 1 billion of his annual R & D funding.

at that time, almost everyone felt that he had lied to Jack Ma.

not only because he studied psychology, but also because Ali Yun at that time was just a figment of the imagination.

in the first few years, Ali Yun became a joke within Ali Group because it was technically difficult and there was no possibility in business.

"Wang Jian is a highly educated liar who only knows how to flatter."

"Wang Jian is wasting resources, and he has no future at all."

for a moment, everyone talked about it, and everyone ridiculed him as a hoax.

but Wang Jian, who is at the center of the whirlpool, has been pale in the face of negative comments that can almost bury him.

he said:

in 2012, Aliyun's first CVM was officially launched.

in 2014, Aliyun became the first company in China to provide overseas cloud computing services.

in 2015, 12306 put the ticket inquiry service on Aliyun.

in business, Aliyun's revenue in 2015 was 1.271 billion yuan, and now its annual revenue is 40 billion yuan, an increase of 31 times in six years.

Wang Jian is also praised by the media as "the most successful CTO in China in the past 10 years."

Mr. Deka's mailbox says:

there is no kind of anger in the world that is effective, and they are often useless except to make things worse.

We can't stop other people's words, but we can make ourselves so good that others have nothing to say.

the true bravery of adults is not a piece of grief and indignation over real life, but a towering tree that no one can ignore, even if it becomes a weed trampled by countless people's shoes.

it is better to be angry than to be strong. When you stand alone and have the courage to challenge the thorns, then the world will eventually lay out a bright red carpet for you and lead you to the center of the stage.

02

it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself

the Analects of Confucius Wei Ling Gong wrote: "the gentleman asks for himself, and the villain asks for others."

Mountains will fall, water is flowing, and mountains and rivers are changeable.

in this world, you are often the only one who is most reliable.

someone sheltered from the rain under the eaves and saw the Quan Yin Bodhisattva passing by with an umbrella. The man said, "Bodhisattva, please help all sentient beings. How about giving me a ride?"

Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva said:

this man immediately jumped out of the eaves and stood in the rain and said, "now that I am also in the rain, is it time to save me?"

Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva said:

then left.

soon this man was in distress and went to the temple to worship, only to see that among the many statues of Guanyin Bodhisattva, there was an image called "several pearls Guanyin".

so he asked the master in the temple, "Master, you asked us to recite the name of Guanyin Bodhisattva. What is the Bodhisattva reading with a rosary?"

Master replied, "recite Guanyin Bodhisattva."

the young man asked, "Why does the Bodhisattva read himself?"

Master replied, "because the Bodhisattva understands that it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself."

Napoleon once said, "there are not enough people to rely on. You have to rely on yourself to survive."

if the umbrella is broken, you have to learn to repair it by yourself; if the heel is broken, you will walk with your feet in mind.

because in the adult world, everyone is often a "clay Bodhisattva", and no one has the power to reach out to others all the time.

when a knife is sharpened on a stone, the more it is sharpened, the stronger it becomes.

ask for help, only for a while, ask yourself for a long time, if you become your own sun, there is no need to borrow light from others.

03

the most important person is Meyer Musk, who was young

. She is a nutrition consultant who makes a living by running a studio. Her clients mainly come from cooperation with clinic doctors.

when she was in her 40s and moved to Canada with her children, no one there knew her professionalism and no doctor was willing to work with her.

there is no money. On cold winter days, she and her children can only borrow coats from relatives and cannot afford to buy a car. She often walks alone in the empty streets on three feet of snow, rushing to take a part-time job.

making money became her top priority in life. She knew that if she wanted to receive a doctor, she had to take the initiative to look for opportunities. She called the doctor's office one by one, although most office managers replied that the doctor did not want to see her.

but with her unremitting efforts, in the end, four doctors agreed to cooperate with her.

it took her three months to successfully restore the blood glucose level of a hyperglycemic patient to normal.

this has attracted the attention of doctors. Since then, there have been more and more patients and more and more successful cases.

many nutritionAt the home meeting, she began to be invited to give a speech, and she became more and more famous.

in the following years, she became the president of the Ontario Nutrition Association and the president of the Canadian Nutrition Association. She was often invited by the major media to comment on nutrition issues in the news and was invited by publishers to publish books.

in this ups and downs world, a person's greatest honor is often himself.

between people standing in heaven and earth, wind and rain is normal, and it is normal to be covered in mud. If you want to be dry and comfortable, you have to run hard and get under the house as soon as possible.

in the trough of difficulty, you have to reach out and climb by yourself.

04

living a long life,

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Sanmao once wrote in his book:

some people say that as soon as middle-aged people open their eyes every day, they are surrounded by people who depend on you, but they have nowhere to turn to.

when people reach middle age, life is filled with the needs of survival, children's education, parents' aging, hardship in the workplace, and minor physical problems from time to time.

Life is like an overstuffed pocket with holes everywhere, mending here and thinking about there.

there are thousands of things in the world, and everything is difficult to do. after thousands of sails, we will eventually understand that all the fruits in this world are not waiting for us, but made by ourselves.

the road of life is long. Learn to be your own ferryman quietly.