Change positions! (must be read in this life)
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Su Shi has a well-known poem:
everyone is in a different position, and the scenery they see is completely different.
it's like this picture:
whether it's "6" or "9", there's nothing wrong, it's just a different location.
A lot of disputes and puzzles in life are often the same. as long as you change the angle and position, you can suddenly become clear.
so, if you learn to think of others, your mind will be liberated and your life will be easier.
01
think of others
is the highest EQ in your life
read a passage:
you are a customer and think the business is violent;
you are a businessman and think your customers are picky;
you are the boss and want your employees to be diligent;
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you are an employee and want your boss to be relaxed.
you are a teacher and want your students to be nice;
you are a student and you want your teachers to be kind.
No one is at fault, it's just a different location.
Lu Xun once said:
between people, it is difficult to empathize.
if you look at others from your own position, you can't come to a good conclusion.
for others, heart to heart, is a person's highest EQ.
if you know how to think of others, someone will think of you; if you know how to pay for others, someone will pay for you.
people, hearts and hearts are always mutual.
know how to think of others, naturally there are people who are willing to associate with you and are welcome wherever you go.
02
think of others
is the highest wisdom in life
pedestrians feel that the driver is rampant, and the driver thinks that the pedestrian is obstructing the traffic.
the husband wants his wife to pay more attention, and the wife wants her husband to share the housework.
Children want their parents to be more patient, and parents want their children to become useful as soon as possible.
No one is wrong, it's just a different position.
the so-called consideration for others is not only to think about others, but also to reflect on yourself.
you can see others from different positions as well as yourself from different angles.
self-centered, you can't see a good view, and it will only make you fall into a whirlpool of anxiety and irritability.
consideration for others and mutual understanding is a person's top wisdom.
in this world, sincerity is mutual, trust is interchangeable, and respect is mutual.
if you are indifferent, the world will be indifferent; if you smile, the world will smile.
know how to think of others, so that you can jump out of the emotional whirlpool and achieve spiritual relief.
03
think of others
is the highest self-cultivation in life
there is a question on the Internet: what is a person's best self-cultivation?
there is an answer: think of others and understand each other.
We have all heard the story of "the blind touch the elephant":
touching the trunk of the elephant, saying that it is like a radish, touching the leg of the elephant, saying that it is like a pillar, touching the back of the elephant, saying that it is like a bed.
they are right, the elephant is indeed so; they are wrong, the elephant is more than that.
in the final analysis, everyone has a different understanding of things from different angles.
consideration for others and mutual understanding is a person's highest self-cultivation.
as a sentence in "Zengguang Xian Wen"
regardless of family affection, friendship, love, more understanding, more tolerance, we can go long-term.
know how to think of others, the mind will be broad, and the years can be leisurely.
04
think of others
is the highest kindness in life
I have read a short story.
when a man came home at night, he saw a blind man with a lantern in his hand.
he felt very strange, so he asked the blind man:
the blind man said:
A really kind-hearted person always has someone else in his heart and knows how to transposition best.
in this world, hearts and hearts do not necessarily communicate with each other, but feelings and feelings are always similar.
to help others is to help yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself.
if you have others in your heart, you will be treated well by others.
the greatest goodness of a person is to be considerate of others and to push oneself and others.
No one's life is always plain sailing, and no one's life is always calm.
when you encounter difficulties, give me a hand; if you encounter injustice, give me a hand.
giving roses, there is a fragrance in the hand, kindness will always be rewarded, and sincerity will always reap the truth.
know how to think of others, someone will come for you and give you warmth.
05
think of others
is the most rare realm in life
on the train, a drunk ran into a passenger. The girl asked her mother:
Mom said:
this mother thought of herself and had experienced difficult times, and because of her bad temper, she inadvertently hurt the people around her.
so she won't argue with the drunk, because she knows that everyone has such moments.
people are always different: different occupations, different encounters, different thoughts.
Heart and heart are always the same: they all need company, care and understanding.