"son, why don't I let you sleep late during the summer vacation?"
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
son, in the twinkling of an eye, the summer vacation has passed a week.
remember the small goals we set together during the holiday?
then you promised me that you would study hard during the holidays.
but your recent performance has disappointed my mother.
watching you get up after 10:00 every day and play with your cell phone on the sofa after dinner, I want to remind you several times.
however, I swallowed the words on the edge of my mouth for fear that you might find your mother annoying. It's over 12:00 this evening. I wanted to see if you slept well. After gently pushing the door open, I found you playing games under the quilt. My mother's heart suddenly cooled.
at this moment, I finally found the reason why you like to sleep late.
when she got back to the bedroom, my mother couldn't sleep. She wanted to write this letter to you.
01 low-level happiness is destroying countless children . Mother knows that it is very hard for you to go to school. so, your father and I have never put too much pressure on you. We just hope you can learn happily and grow up healthily. however, when I see you indulge in low pleasures during the holidays, I think it can't go on like this. in the past two days, "low happiness is dragging you down" has been a hot search, attracting 190 million netizens to watch. the so-called low-level happiness is the fun that can be easily obtained, such as browsing short videos, playing games, sleeping in, etc. such happiness always goes hand in hand with pain. When time is running out, there is only endless emptiness left. only self-discipline can bring true freedom. Happiness represents the present state of mind, and meaning comes from the call of the future. lower happiness is indulgence, higher happiness is restraint. experts in many fields know how to delay gratification and not covet the pleasure of the moment. take the case of you sleeping in. At first I thought you were too tired, but then I found out that you were trapped by low happiness. when you stay up late, the happiness of that moment is real, but the price of staying up late is also heavy. if you want to form a good habit of getting up early, the most important thing to do is not to set the alarm clock to wake you up, but to go to bed early. the story of Apple CEO Tim Cook getting up at 4:30 every day has been widely publicized by the media. however, few people know that he goes to bed at 9 o'clock every night. as the old saying goes, "Wise men fear the cause, fools fear the fruit." I can get up early because I go to bed early. because you get up early, you can control the day and live a good life. Child, I hope that from today on, you can go to bed early and get up early, stop sleeping late, and stop being seduced by low happiness. Reading is the best ladder across classes son. Mom recently saw a piece of news on the Internet, which she especially wants to share with you. there is a takeout boy named Wang Wei, who got a good score of 623 in this year's college entrance examination, ranking 1300 in science in Hubei Province, and is called "Brother Li Zhi" by many people. in fact, as early as 8 years ago, Wang Wei was admitted to a university with high marks. but he was more playful at that time and didn't pay attention to his study. He abandoned his college for four years and was finally persuaded to quit by the school. later, he worked in a tutoring institution, worked as a porter, and even delivered takeout. he always does the hardest and tiring physical work, but he can't see where tomorrow will be. under the hammering of life, he realized: "Education is too important for students from poor families." after learning from the bitter experience, Wang Wei decided to go back to school, study hard for eight months, and rewrite his destiny with reading. while waiting for his grades, he went back to his old job, delivering takeout to earn tuition. there is no doubt that Wang Wei is lucky. It's not too late for him to start all over again in his early twenties. his story also makes me more and more convinced that reading is the best ladder across class. when you have experienced the cruelty of society, you will realize that reading and learning is much easier. now you find it hard to memorize, tired of writing, hard to learn, and escape from reality again and again, but you have to understand that all the laziness you have stolen now will have to be repaid doubly in the future. Learning is like building a house. If the foundation is unstable, it will be very difficult later, and it will take more time to rework. what's more, if there is no sowing in March or April, how can we get the harvest in July and August? When you see other students admitted to the ideal school, but you can only sigh, how much regret should you have? Mom has no intention of dividing people into three, six or nine grades, nor does she want to judge anyone with secular views, but there is a long way to go in life, and there is an inch of joy in an inch. I don't know how to learn early with black hair, but with white head.Fang regrets that he is late in reading. Son, don't let the future you hate yourself who doesn't work hard now. Holiday is the best time for corner overtaking son, remember your deskmate Xintong last year? she didn't do well in the final exam last year, but this year she stood out and got the first place in the class. some time ago, I specially asked her mother for lessons, only to know that Xintong overtook at the holiday bend. Xintong knew that she didn't do well in the exam and was sad for a long time. she didn't slack off at all that holiday. She was very busy correcting wrong questions, checking and filling gaps every day, and reviewing what the teacher had said in class. after the beginning of school, when you have almost forgotten your knowledge, she can quickly adapt to the pace of learning and win at the starting line. and the daughter of parenting expert Yin Jianli, Yuan Yuan, also read a lot during the holidays and formed the good habit of taking books as companions. Yuanyuan Primary School finished all Jin Yong's martial arts novels and read one every day during the holidays. the nutrition in these books imperceptibly nourishes her. When she writes her composition, she will unconsciously quote the accumulated good words and sentences, and the article is quite literary. in the college entrance examination, Yuanyuan scored 140 points, and a shortfall of 10 points is a full score. as the saying goes, "I am not afraid that my classmate is high achiever, but I am afraid that high achiever will take the summer vacation." all the amazing things you see have been practiced by mediocrity. Holidays are the connecting link between the preceding and the next. make good use of this time, you can get twice the result with half the effort in your study. the time for holidays is limited, so if you do this, you can't do that. when you use it to sleep in, others may be writing hard. Children, you will be in the third year of junior high school in the second half of the year, the difficulty of the course will suddenly increase, and the pressure of going to school is coming. looking at your present state of decay and depression, my mother is very worried that you will not get your heart back after the holiday. as the saying goes, "Adults are uncomfortable, comfortable are not adults." excellent people are willing to hit themselves hard. if you want to achieve better results, you must make more efforts. Mom hopes that you can make holiday plans, keep reading every day, finish your homework on time, and take the initiative to preview the lessons for next semester. study hard now in order to play better in the future. this is a crucial year in your life. Good steel must be used on the blade. Child, it's late at night. hearing the dream talk coming from your room, my mother breathed a sigh of relief and knew that you were asleep. tonight, I have thought a lot and written a lot. I hope you can understand my mother's painstaking efforts after you see it. everyone takes many detours in the process of growing up. what Mom and Dad can do is to help you avoid unnecessary detours based on your own experience. however, our ability is limited, we can only put you on the horse, give you another ride, and the rest of the road depends on you step by step. when the holiday is coming, your father and I urge you to study hard. We don't expect you to glorify your ancestors, nor do you expect you to be rich. We just hope that you will have the right to choose and live the life you want instead of being forced to make a living. finally, Mom says again, in the eyes of your father and me, you will always be the brightest presence in the crowd, no matter whether your grades are excellent or not, we will always love you.
low-level happiness is destroying countless children
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. Mother knows that it is very hard for you to go to school.
so, your father and I have never put too much pressure on you. We just hope you can learn happily and grow up healthily.
however, when I see you indulge in low pleasures during the holidays, I think it can't go on like this.
in the past two days, "low happiness is dragging you down" has been a hot search, attracting 190 million netizens to watch.
the so-called low-level happiness is the fun that can be easily obtained, such as browsing short videos, playing games, sleeping in, etc.
such happiness always goes hand in hand with pain. When time is running out, there is only endless emptiness left.
only self-discipline can bring true freedom.
Happiness represents the present state of mind, and meaning comes from the call of the future.
lower happiness is indulgence, higher happiness is restraint.
experts in many fields know how to delay gratification and not covet the pleasure of the moment.
take the case of you sleeping in. At first I thought you were too tired, but then I found out that you were trapped by low happiness.
when you stay up late, the happiness of that moment is real, but the price of staying up late is also heavy.
if you want to form a good habit of getting up early, the most important thing to do is not to set the alarm clock to wake you up, but to go to bed early.
the story of Apple CEO Tim Cook getting up at 4:30 every day has been widely publicized by the media.
however, few people know that he goes to bed at 9 o'clock every night.
as the old saying goes, "Wise men fear the cause, fools fear the fruit."
I can get up early because I go to bed early.
because you get up early, you can control the day and live a good life.
Child, I hope that from today on, you can go to bed early and get up early, stop sleeping late, and stop being seduced by low happiness.
Reading is the best ladder across classes
son. Mom recently saw a piece of news on the Internet, which she especially wants to share with you.
there is a takeout boy named Wang Wei, who got a good score of 623 in this year's college entrance examination, ranking 1300 in science in Hubei Province, and is called "Brother Li Zhi" by many people.
in fact, as early as 8 years ago, Wang Wei was admitted to a university with high marks.
but he was more playful at that time and didn't pay attention to his study. He abandoned his college for four years and was finally persuaded to quit by the school.
later, he worked in a tutoring institution, worked as a porter, and even delivered takeout.
he always does the hardest and tiring physical work, but he can't see where tomorrow will be.
under the hammering of life, he realized: "Education is too important for students from poor families."
after learning from the bitter experience, Wang Wei decided to go back to school, study hard for eight months, and rewrite his destiny with reading.
while waiting for his grades, he went back to his old job, delivering takeout to earn tuition.
there is no doubt that Wang Wei is lucky. It's not too late for him to start all over again in his early twenties.
his story also makes me more and more convinced that reading is the best ladder across class.
when you have experienced the cruelty of society, you will realize that reading and learning is much easier.
now you find it hard to memorize, tired of writing, hard to learn, and escape from reality again and again, but you have to understand that all the laziness you have stolen now will have to be repaid doubly in the future.
Learning is like building a house. If the foundation is unstable, it will be very difficult later, and it will take more time to rework.
what's more, if there is no sowing in March or April, how can we get the harvest in July and August? When you see other students admitted to the ideal school, but you can only sigh, how much regret should you have?
Mom has no intention of dividing people into three, six or nine grades, nor does she want to judge anyone with secular views, but there is a long way to go in life, and there is an inch of joy in an inch.
I don't know how to learn early with black hair, but with white head.Fang regrets that he is late in reading. Son, don't let the future you hate yourself who doesn't work hard now.
Holiday is the best time for corner overtaking
son, remember your deskmate Xintong last year?
she didn't do well in the final exam last year, but this year she stood out and got the first place in the class.
some time ago, I specially asked her mother for lessons, only to know that Xintong overtook at the holiday bend.
Xintong knew that she didn't do well in the exam and was sad for a long time.
she didn't slack off at all that holiday. She was very busy correcting wrong questions, checking and filling gaps every day, and reviewing what the teacher had said in class.
after the beginning of school, when you have almost forgotten your knowledge, she can quickly adapt to the pace of learning and win at the starting line.
and the daughter of parenting expert Yin Jianli, Yuan Yuan, also read a lot during the holidays and formed the good habit of taking books as companions.
Yuanyuan Primary School finished all Jin Yong's martial arts novels and read one every day during the holidays.
the nutrition in these books imperceptibly nourishes her. When she writes her composition, she will unconsciously quote the accumulated good words and sentences, and the article is quite literary.
in the college entrance examination, Yuanyuan scored 140 points, and a shortfall of 10 points is a full score.
as the saying goes, "I am not afraid that my classmate is high achiever, but I am afraid that high achiever will take the summer vacation."
all the amazing things you see have been practiced by mediocrity.
Holidays are the connecting link between the preceding and the next.
make good use of this time, you can get twice the result with half the effort in your study.
the time for holidays is limited, so if you do this, you can't do that.
when you use it to sleep in, others may be writing hard.
Children, you will be in the third year of junior high school in the second half of the year, the difficulty of the course will suddenly increase, and the pressure of going to school is coming.
looking at your present state of decay and depression, my mother is very worried that you will not get your heart back after the holiday.
as the saying goes, "Adults are uncomfortable, comfortable are not adults."
excellent people are willing to hit themselves hard.
if you want to achieve better results, you must make more efforts.
Mom hopes that you can make holiday plans, keep reading every day, finish your homework on time, and take the initiative to preview the lessons for next semester.
study hard now in order to play better in the future.
this is a crucial year in your life. Good steel must be used on the blade.
Child, it's late at night.
hearing the dream talk coming from your room, my mother breathed a sigh of relief and knew that you were asleep.
tonight, I have thought a lot and written a lot. I hope you can understand my mother's painstaking efforts after you see it.
everyone takes many detours in the process of growing up.
what Mom and Dad can do is to help you avoid unnecessary detours based on your own experience.
however, our ability is limited, we can only put you on the horse, give you another ride, and the rest of the road depends on you step by step.
when the holiday is coming, your father and I urge you to study hard. We don't expect you to glorify your ancestors, nor do you expect you to be rich. We just hope that you will have the right to choose and live the life you want instead of being forced to make a living.
finally, Mom says again, in the eyes of your father and me, you will always be the brightest presence in the crowd, no matter whether your grades are excellent or not, we will always love you.